We grew up in a society where it flaunts the beauty of independence. Being a boss or making it on your own is all the rage. When in reality, independence means lonely. Don’t get me wrong, being able to be independent by being a responsible adult and learning a work ethic is a necessary thing. But being independent so deeply where you can’t or don’t rely on anyone is simply loneliness. We have an epidemic of lonely people desperate for connection, and yet no one is teaching people connection is important or how to connect. Needing people or asking for help is seen to be “weak.” When in reality, the vulnerability it takes to let someone in is the strongest thing someone can do. We aren’t meant to be independent and do life alone. We are meant to be interdependent on our community, friendships, and family. We are meant to be dependent on a good loving God who designed us for connection. There are great aspects of learning how to do things on your own, be an adult and be responsible. But being fiercely independent just leads to loneliness, selfishness and lack of ability to connect with those around them. We are all made for connection, designed for love, and not have to take the weight of the world on our shoulders. We are called to bear the weight of life together, and release it all to God. Independence isn’t strength, it’s actually the weak and easy thing to do pushing people away. . . . #emotionalhealth #controversy #therapist #mindsetcoach #mindsetmatters

Posted by Briana Stonelake at 2023-03-29 17:55:05 UTC